Beyond the Hustle

Tag: self-improvement

  • Mid-Year Isn’t the End—It’s a Reset Point

    Can you believe the first half of the year is almost behind us?

    It feels like we were just setting intentions in January, mapping out goals, getting organized, and telling ourselves, “This is my year.” And now here we are… staring down the second half of 2025.

    Maybe life threw you a curveball. Maybe your priorities shifted. Maybe you just lost momentum (we’ve all been there). That doesn’t mean your goals aren’t still worth pursuing, it just means now’s the time to lock back in.

    The second half of the year gives you:

    • 26 weeks of possibility
    • 182 days to make progress
    • Countless chances to show up differently

    It’s not about doing more, it’s about doing what matters. With intention. With clarity. With energy that supports where you want to go, not just where you’ve been.

    Don’t let yesterday take up too much of today, even more importantly, tomorrow! ~Me

    Questions to Ask Yourself Right Now

    If you’re not sure where to begin, start here. Carve out 10 minutes and journal these out:

    • What did I want to create or change this year?
    • What progress have I made (even the small wins)?
    • What’s gotten in my way?
    • What needs to shift in the next 6 months?
    • What do I want to feel proud of by the end of the year?

    The goal isn’t perfection, it’s alignment. It’s choosing to return to your why, even if the how looks different now.

    Let’s Finish Strong—Together (I’m ready!)

    I’ll be sharing more ideas in the coming weeks to help you refocus, reset, and finish the year strong, whether it’s through wellness routines, mindset practices, business clarity, or just showing up for yourself in a more meaningful way.

    But for today, here’s what I want you to know: You don’t have to wait for “perfect timing.” You just have to choose to show up now. One step. One shift. One day at a time.

    We’re in this together, and there’s still so much room to rise. Below is a list of tools to help you kick some real ass the second half of the year.

    🧠 Mindset & Clarity

    • The Five Minute Journal – Simple daily gratitude and goal-setting
    • Insight Timer or Calm App – Guided meditations and breathwork
    • High Performance Habits by Brendon Burchard – A great read or audiobook for momentum

    📅 Planning & Productivity

    • Google Calendar – For blocking focused work, workouts, or rest
    • Asana – Visual task management (great for business + personal projects)

    💪 Wellness & Energy

    • AllTrails App – For finding trails and staying active outdoors (I can’t live without this one!)
    • Make Wellness Peptides – (of course!) to support energy, focus, hydration & recovery
    • MyFitnessPal – For tracking nutrition and movement goals

    📈 Business & Branding

    • Canva – Create stunning graphics, social posts, and promo content easily
    • Flodesk – Simple, beautiful email marketing (great for small business owners)

    🧾 Reflection & Reset

    • Quarterly Goal Review Template (create your own or download a freebie)
    • Whiteboard or Sticky Notes Wall – Sometimes old-school visuals help new ideas flow (this is totally me!)
    • Spotify “Focus” or “Confidence Boost” Playlists – Because music changes everything

    Let’s lock in and finish this year with purpose and intention.

    You with me?

    Denise xo

    Leave a comment

  • Start Scared: Why Fear Doesn’t Mean You’re Not Ready

    I almost didn’t do it.

    So many idea(s) lived rent-free in my brain for months—maybe years. A challenging trail race. A new podcast. This blog. A bold business pivot. A launch in an industry completely foreign to me.

    Each one, pushed off until I felt “ready.” But every time I got close, that familiar voice whispered:

    “Who do you think you are?”
    “What if you fail?”
    “What will people say?”

    Sound familiar? Hello, imposter syndrome, right?!

    Fear has a way of showing up the moment you’re standing on the edge of something important. It tries to protect you by keeping you small, safe, and stuck. But here’s the truth I’ve learned over and over again: you don’t need to feel fearless to start—you just need to move through the fear anyway. And yes, it’s hard.

    Fear Isn’t a Stop Sign 🛑

    We often wait for fear to disappear before we act. But fear doesn’t vanish with time—it quiets down after you start.

    The fear of judgment, failure, or looking like a beginner? Those things feel massive—until you do the thing and realize: you survived. You grew. You’re still standing—stronger, actually.

    And for every person silently hoping you’ll fail? There are so many more watching and cheering for your success.

    And, this might come as a shock…but, no one is thinking about you as much as you think they are. (Seriously.)

    My Turning Point 🌟

    My shift came when I stopped tying my worth to the outcome and started attaching it to the action. That—in the space between fear and movement—is where I believe real impact lives.

    I realized I could be scared and still be ready.
    I could be unsure and still show up.
    I could take messy steps and still make progress.

    I launched the podcast.
    I took the leap into a new business.
    I said yes to the scary things—while my hands were shaking. While the vulnerability felt suffocating, but here I am, alive and kicking. Fear doesn’t kill you, it helps you thrive.

    And you know what? Every single time I’ve done that, I’ve met a new version of myself. Or maybe… I just elevated the one that was already there. (You know what I mean.)

    What’s Waiting on the Other Side 🚀 

    When you move past fear, even just a little, you build trust in yourself. You stop outsourcing your power to perfect timing, approval, or guarantees. You start building momentum—and confidence follows.

    Yes, fear still shows up. That voice doesn’t disappear. But it gets quieter when action gets louder.

    Start Scared. Start Small. Just Start.🔥

    You don’t have to launch the whole thing today. Do it in phases if you have to, but you can take the first step. Book the call. Write the page. Post the idea. Say it out loud. LEAN IN!!

    The momentum you’re craving? It’s already waiting on the other side of that one brave action.

    So here’s your permission slip: You don’t need to be fearless—just brave for 30 seconds.

    I’m cheering for you. Always.

    Denise xo

  • From Someday to Today

    How did I finally get here?

    For most of my career, I played a role behind the scenes—and I loved it. I still do. Writing and creating content have always been my passion. I naturally fell into positions where I ghostwrote and crafted content in others’ voices. And I was good at it.

    But something shifted in 2023.

    I started feeling restless. I was tired of pouring my creativity into work where others reaped the rewards. Now, don’t get me wrong—I don’t say that out of greed or selfishness. I’ve always found joy in helping others shine.

    But then came the epiphany.

    I realized it was time to step out from behind the curtain and take a peek at what else was out there. And you know what? I actually have something to say. I have insights to offer. I have a 40+ year career filled with experiences, lessons, and stories worth sharing. But I needed to believe that. I needed to build the confidence to recognize my own value.

    This past year has been one of discovery—of myself, my voice, and my impact. And as is typical for me, once I commit, I jump all in—often without warning to anyone around me. That’s how I’ve approached every major decision in my life.

    But let me be honest…

    I’ve also mastered the art of procrastination. Maybe you can relate. Sometimes, it’s fear—fear of failure, fear of judgment, fear of the unknown. Sometimes, the vision isn’t fully clear yet. And sometimes, it just feels too damn hard. But here’s the thing: once it all clicks in my mind, I jump.

    Why Do We Keep Putting Off Our Dreams?

    I don’t know about you, but I’ve asked myself this question more times than I can count.

    At the end of the day, we only have so much time—to create impact, to inspire others, to build a legacy. So why do we keep postponing the things that truly fulfill us?

    It’s the million-dollar question.

    And the answer? Just start.

    Benjamin Franklin nailed it when he said…

    “You may delay, but time will not.”

    So if you’ve been waiting for the perfect time to start, stop waiting. Below are four powerful strategies that have helped me push past procrastination and finally move forward.

    1. Start Small and Break It Down

    Big ideas can feel overwhelming, which is why they often stay stuck in the “someday” category. Instead of focusing on the entire journey, break your goal into small, manageable steps. Progress—no matter how small—builds momentum.

    2. Set Real Deadlines (and Hold Yourself Accountable)

    A dream without a deadline is just a wish. I haven’t always been great at this, but over the past year, I’ve gotten better. Set a firm timeline for your goals and, even better, make them public. Accountability is a powerful motivator.

    3. Remove Distractions and Just Start

    Procrastination feeds on distractions. Identify what’s pulling your focus away—social media, endless to-do lists, or fear of failure—and eliminate it. Then, commit to just five minutes of action. Often, starting is the hardest part, but once you do, you’ll keep going.

    4. Stop Waiting for Perfection

    Here’s the truth bomb: No one is expecting perfection from you. The only person demanding perfection is you. So let it go and just do the damn thing!

    If you’ve been feeling that nudge, that stir, that inner voice telling you it’s time—jump.

    Because at the end of the day, what do you really have to lose?

    It’s Your Turn

    So here’s my challenge to you—what’s the one thing you’ve been putting off? The book you want to write, the business you want to start, the career shift you’ve been dreaming about? Whatever it is, take one small step today. Because time isn’t waiting for you. And neither should you.

    1. Unknown's avatar
    2. Unknown's avatar
    3. Denise Irving's avatar
    4. Unknown's avatar
    5. Denise Irving's avatar