
“The world is full of wonder for those with eyes to see.” — Unknown
Some days it feels like we’re all swimming against the current, doesn’t it? We wake up with good intentions, only to be met with headlines and algorithms designed to divide us, overwhelm us, or convince us that the world is falling apart.
And when you’re constantly bombarded with negativity, staying motivated becomes a real challenge.
But here’s the truth: 👉🏼 we have far more in common than the media wants us to believe. We’re all humans navigating a busy, messy, beautiful life the best we can. And especially during the holidays, a season that should be meaningful and magical, motivation can dip hard.
For some, this time of year brings joy. For others, it brings pressure, loneliness, grief, financial stress, or the temptation to say, “Screw it,” abandon routines, and spiral.
Your diet? Your fitness? Your sleep? Your habits? All of it can feel harder to hold onto right now.
But I want to gently remind you of something: You can make this season glorious…if you enter it with intention.
Let’s Talk About Intention
Think back to when you were a child. Christmas was full of magic and wonder, right?
You didn’t need a reason to believe that something special was coming.
You didn’t need motivation… you just felt it.
As adults, we lose that spark.
We forget what it feels like to sit and dream.
To slow down.
To look for beauty.
To expect goodness.
But intention brings the magic back. When we decide to look for joy, to create moments, to weave meaning into the season, it changes everything.
Intention isn’t perfection. Let me say it again, intention isn’t perfection.
It’s direction.
So if you’re feeling unmotivated, disconnected, or overwhelmed, here are small but powerful things you can start today that help recharge your mindset, bring back the magic, and anchor you into a better season.
10 Ways to Bring Back Magic, Motivation & Meaning This Season
1. Start Your Day With a “Stillness Moment”
Just 5 minutes. No phone. No noise. Sit with your breath, a warm drink, a candle…something grounding.
2. Make a December “Joy List”
Write down 10 things that genuinely spark joy—small or big—and schedule them into your month.
3. Listen to One Motivational Podcast
A great one:
🎧 The Ed Mylett Show
Perfect for getting back into a powerful mindset.
4. Read a Book That Re-energizes You
A beautiful seasonal choice:
📚 The Comfort Book by Matt Haig
Short, hopeful reflections that feel like a deep breath.
5. Set Three Non-Negotiable Goals for the Month
Keep them simple:
- Move 20 minutes a day
- Drink enough water
- Sleep 7 hours
- Journal nightly…you don’t need big goals, just consistent ones.
6. Create a “Digital Boundary Window”
Turn off news + notifications for at least one hour each night.
Your nervous system will thank you.
7. Inject Some Play Into Your Day
Adults don’t play enough. Bake. Color. Walk through Christmas lights. Watch a holiday movie. Play brings back wonder automatically.
8. Do One Kind Thing Each Week
Giving fuels motivation. Write a card, donate gently used items, pay for someone’s coffee, or leave a positive review for a small business.
9. Reconnect With Someone You Miss
A text. A call. A coffee date. Connection builds purpose, and purpose builds motivation.
10. End Each Day With a “Magic Moment Check-In”
Ask yourself: What was one small moment that felt good today? It rewires your brain toward gratitude and hope.
A Final Thought
Motivation doesn’t always appear on its own—sometimes we have to intentionally create space for it. Even in an unmotivated world. Especially now.
But if you can slow down, breathe deeper, find wonder again, and choose intention… this season can become one of the most meaningful ones you’ve had in years.
✨ You deserve a December filled with magic and momentum.
✨ And you’re far more in control of that than it might feel today.
Please share this post with a friend or family member who might need a seasonal boost right now. And, if you missed my recent post, Don’t Go Into The Holidays Without a Plan, you can catch it 👉🏼 here.
Live boldly,
Denise xo

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